Saidaboj, a controversial Nigerian feminist and content creator, has stirred reactions on social media after sharing a blunt opinion about modern relationships and emotional attachment after intimacy.
In a recent statement, Saidaboj said:
“The fact that he didn’t ghost you after having sex with you doesn’t mean that he loves you. There are some men that are naturally good; their mothers trained them well. Yes, they want to have sex, but out of pity they keep checking on you so you don’t feel worthless. So don’t think they love you because they don’t.”
The statement has since generated mixed reactions online, with some people agreeing that kindness should not always be mistaken for love, while others criticized the comment for being too harsh and generalized toward men and relationships.
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The discussion has added to ongoing conversations on social media about dating expectations, emotional intelligence, and modern relationship dynamics in Nigeria.
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