Nigerian singer, Omawumi, has said she does not believe that modern relationships are uniquely transactional, insisting that romantic relationships have always involved some form of exchange.
She shared this view during a recent appearance on a Pulse podcast, where she spoke about changing expectations in dating and how expressions of affection have evolved over time.
According to her, relationship dynamics have always included giving and receiving, but what has changed is the type and value of what is exchanged.
She explained that in earlier years, especially during secondary school and university days, romantic interest was often expressed through simple gestures such as buying snacks, ice cream, or popcorn.
However, she noted that in present-day relationships, those smaller gestures have, in many cases, been replaced with more expensive expectations, such as mobile phones and other high-value gifts.
Omawumi stressed that the word “transactional” is often misunderstood and should not automatically carry a negative meaning, as mutual effort is a normal part of relationships.
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She also said she personally believes in reciprocating energy in relationships, adding that she tends to match the level of effort or gifts she receives from a partner.
The singer further pointed out that women are often misunderstood in discussions about relationships, saying they are frequently seen only as beneficiaries, while their own emotional and practical contributions are overlooked.
She added that some men tend to put in significant effort at the beginning of relationships but may reduce their consistency once they feel they have won a partner’s attention.
Omawumi concluded by emphasizing that consistency remains a key issue in modern relationships, stressing that effort should not fade after initial attraction but should be maintained over time.
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