Grammy-winning Nigerian artist Tems has spoken openly about her views on modern dating, saying that many men approach relationships with primarily sexual intentions rather than emotional connection.
Speaking on an episode of Flow With Korty, Tems reflected on her experiences with love and dating after being asked whether she had ever been in love. She said that, in her experience, some men tend to be very direct about what they want from the outset.
“A lot of guys are very obvious. There’s no real intention beyond sexual interest,” she said, describing what she sees as a pattern in contemporary dating.
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Her comments quickly circulated on social media, sparking debate among fans and commentators about relationship dynamics and how men and women navigate romantic intentions today.
Tems also used the conversation to share personal reflections on her upbringing, revealing that her quiet and reserved nature often led to misunderstandings. She said she was bullied as a child because of her personality and the way she expressed herself, experiences that shaped her growing up.
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