Nigerian actress Beverly Naya has shared the importance of setting boundaries in personal relationships.
In her update on Instagram, Naya emphasised that setting boundaries is crucial for protecting one’s emotional well-being and creating space for meaningful connections.
According to her, she felt uncomfortable setting boundaries, fearing she would come across as too harsh or difficult.
However, she admitted that establishing clear limits has helped her attract healthy relationships and repel draining connections.
She wrote: “One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learnt is that setting boundaries isn’t just about protecting your peace…
it’s about making space for the right people to stay in your life.
“I honestly used to struggle with saying ‘no’ or speaking up when something didn’t sit right with me, but the moment I began to clearly define what I could and couldn’t accept, something magical happened: the right people respected my boundaries, and those who didn’t naturally faded away.
“At first, it felt uncomfortable…
like I was being too harsh or difficult.
But the truth is, when you create boundaries, you’re not being difficult, you’re choosing yourself.
“You’re showing the world how you deserve to be treated. It’s about valuing your energy and knowing that you have every right to protect it.
“Now, when I reflect on those relationships that couldn’t withstand my boundaries, I see it as a blessing.
“We don’t need to hold onto people or situations that drain us. The ones meant to stay will honour your boundaries (and vice versa), and that’s how you know you’re creating space for healthier, more fulfilling connections.
“Just remember: boundaries don’t push the right people away, they invite them closer. Let them be your guide, and watch how your life fills with the right energy and people who truly”.