Popular singer Tems has spoken candidly about a past relationship she describes as toxic, revealing that her partner was “obsessive and possessive.”
In a heartfelt interview with media personality Angie Martinez, the Essence singer explained that a healthy relationship is built on partnership, not ownership.
“I have experienced love where I thought it was love, but it felt more like someone trying to own me. They think they own you, and that’s not love.
Love is not obsession. And it is not possession.
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I can’t own another human being. Love is when both of you become one person.
We don’t own each other, we are each other.
I feel everyone has experienced toxic love with someone who doesn’t even know that they are toxic.
They say they love you, but they don’t know that they don’t even love you.
Because you can’t love someone you feel you own,” Tems said.
She added that toxic relationships can be draining, especially when the other person is unaware of their harmful behavior, underscoring the importance of self-awareness and respect in love.
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